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Dear Abby: Wife spends 30 years married to a miser

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

Dear Abby: I’ve been married for more than 30 years. My husband and I split all bills and everything else. This has worked because, in life, I have always taken care of myself. My issue is his cheap attitude about every little dime. He always makes sure I pay my fair share TO THE PENNY, but when it comes to his reimbursing me, he usually rounds down to the dollar.While he’s tight with the family, he’s generous to everyone else. He is generous not only with his money, but also his time. His stinginess toward me makes me feel I’m unimportant to him. (I am very generous to him.) Why are our family and I lowest on his priority list while he’s so generous to everyone else? — Feeling Slighted in CaliforniaDear Feeling: Your husband may have cultivated the reputation of being benevolent and munificent because he feels it is to his advantage. He may not feel the need to impress you and other family members because he sees no advantage in it. What a misera...

Brian Dutcher setting historic firsts for SDSU during magical March Madness run

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- Sixth-year head coach Brian Dutcher is leading the San Diego State University men's basketball team on a historic run as they continue to create madness in the NCAA Tournament. Dutcher's four wins in this year's competition are the only victories he has had in his NCAA Tournament head coaching career. The 63-year-old will also be the second-oldest coach to make his men's Final Four debut in the past 25 years, ESPN's SportsCenter tweeted Sunday.When he started out as the Aztecs head coach in the 2017-18 season, Dutcher lost in the first round. The Aztecs did not make the tournament the following year (2018-19), while the COVID-19 pandemic canceled the 2019-20 tournament for the first time in history. Then, the following two seasons, the Aztecs suffered back-to-back first round exits. And now in the 2022-2023 season, Dutcher has struck gold. His team has defeated the College of Charleston, Furman University, The University of Alabama and Creighton University in the NCAA T...

South Bay community pays tribute to boys killed in 1993

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

IMPERIAL BEACH, Calif. -- It was a double homicide case that haunted a South Bay community for years. The murder of Jonathan Sellers and Charlie Keever happened three decades ago and today the community is keeping their names alive.Thirty years ago, Sellers and Keever were killed and their bodies were discovered along the Otay River. "My baby would be turning 40 years old, and he never got to see that" said Sellers' mother Melena Sellers Phillips. Sellers was nine years old at the time."It was very difficult. I went through some hard times for many years" Phillips said.Charlie Keever, 13, was also a victim. His mother told FOX5 the conversation she had with him before he went out on his bike ride."Por favor Charlie, be careful. There are a lot of bad people around y me dijo, oh mom don’t worry" Maria Keever said.The boys were never seen again. Two days later, their bodies were discovered along the Otay River bank and according to police, Scott Erskine was accused of t...

Australian soldier charged over Afghan killing freed on bail

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

SYDNEY (AP) — A former elite soldier charged with murder for allegedly killing an unarmed man in Afghanistan was released on bail Tuesday by a magistrate who concluded he would face danger from Muslim extremists in prison. Oliver Schulz, 41, had been in custody since his arrest in rural New South Wales state last week on the war crime of murder.His lawyer Phillip Boulten applied for bail in Sydney’s Downing Center Local Court on Monday, arguing the former Special Air Service Regiment trooper faced serious risks to his personal safety from Muslim extremists in the prison system and had to be segregated from other inmates.“Wherever this man is going to be held in prison, he is likely to have to mix with people in prison who sympathize with the Taliban or with other Islamicextremist groups,” Boulten said.Magistrate Jennifer Atkinson granted the request, agreeing the risks posed to him while behind bars were too great.“It’s possible to infer that there may be some people being held ther...

Russia says it test-fired anti-ship missiles in Sea of Japan

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

MOSCOW (AP) — Russia’s Defense Ministry says Moscow has test-fired anti-ship missiles in the Sea of Japan. The ministry said Tuesday that two boats launched a simulated missile attack on a mock enemy warship about 100 kilometers (60 miles) away. The ministry said the target was successfully hit by two Moskit cruise missiles. The Moskit, whose NATO reporting name is the SS-N-22 Sunburn, is a supersonic anti-ship cruise missile that has conventional and nuclear warhead capacity.It said the exercise took place in the Peter the Great Gulf in the Sea of Japan but did not give more precise coordinates. The gulf borders the Russian Pacific Fleet headquarters at Fokino and is about 700 kilometers (430 miles) from Japan’s northern Hokkaido Island. Japan’s Defense Ministry had no immediate response. The U.S. Navy’s 7th Fleet did not immediately respond to requests for comment. Russian nuclear-capable Tu-95 flew over the Sea of Japan for several hours last week.The Associated...

Asian shares mostly rise on relief over US bank strength

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

TOKYO (AP) — Asian shares were mostly higher on Tuesday as investors got some relief from worries over troubled U.S. banks with a planned takeover of failed Silicon Valley Bank. Japan’s benchmark Nikkei 225 lost 0.1% to 27,456.98. Australia’s S&P/ASX 200 jumped 1.1% to 7,036.20. South Korea’s Kospi added 0.4% to 2,419.43. Hong Kong’s Hang Seng rose nearly 0.4% to 19,644.68, while the Shanghai Composite inched up less than 0.1% to 3,249.39. “Asian equities were positive on Tuesday, lifted by mostly higher major indices in the previous session. Receding fears surrounding the banking crisis and surging oil prices led to solid risk-taking flows,” Anderson Alves at ActivTrades said in a report. Markets have been in turmoil following Silicon Valley Bank’s collapse, the second-largest U.S. bank failure in history, earlier this month, and then the third-largest failure, by New York-based Signature Bank. Investors have been hunting for which banks could be n...

WGN at 75: The 2005 Illini through Bruce Weber's eyes

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

CHICAGO - Their "March to the Arch" was at times "Madness," but it only made their run to the national championship game more special.An exciting, fast-paced, intelligent group of basketball players in Champaign brought Illinois what was their first and so far only opportunity to play one game for a Division I men's basketball championship.Bruce Weber was in charge of the Illini men's basketball team in the 2004-2005 season which not only captivated fans in their own base but also those around the country that admired the way they played. They went through the regular season with just one loss, which came in their final game before the Big Ten Tournament. The charismatic group led by dynamic guards Dee Brown, Luther Head, and Deron Williams would win the conference tournament in Chicago before a memorable NCAA Tournament run.Two victories in Indianapolis were followed by two in Rosemont, including arguably the greatest comeback in NCAA Tournament history in the Chicago Regional fina...

Avs crush Anaheim Ducks, stay hot on Minnesota Wild’s heels in Central standings

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

No sweating it out this time for the Avalanche.Colorado completed a clean two-game road trip against non-playoff teams with a 5-1 win at the Anaheim Ducks on Monday.The Avs (44-23-6) established a two-point advantage over Dallas for second place in the Central. They trail the Wild by one point for the division lead, and they have a clash vs. Minnesota for first place upcoming Wednesday (8 p.m. MT) at Ball Arena.Johansson gives Georgiev a necessary breather: Avalanche coach Jared Bednar said before the road trip that he planned to split goalies in the Western Conference back-to-back. He went with Alexandar Georgiev at Arizona, a team that always gives Colorado fits. That decision paid off as Georgiev stopped seven consecutive shootout attempts to help the Avs earn two important points. So it was backup Jonas Johansson for the back end in Anaheim. Georgiev needed a rest after starting five consecutive games and 12 of the last 13. He kept a .909 save percentage during that March gauntl...

Body-worn camera footage shows fatal police shooting in Orange County

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

On Monday, authorities with the Fullerton Police Department released officer-worn camera footage of a fatal shooting of an unarmed suspect that occurred last month.  The deadly incident unfolded on Feb. 10, just after 1 a.m. when officers spotted a vehicle in the area of Harbor Boulevard and Chapman Avenue that police say was wanted in connection with an armed robbery out of San Bernardino County.  When authorities attempted to conduct a traffic stop, the suspect, identified as Austin Heiselman, led officers on a pursuit through Fullerton and La Habra, according to a news release from Fullerton PD.  During the pursuit, police said the suspect waved a handgun out of the window.  At the intersection of Beach Boulevard and Imperial Avenue, in La Habra, the suspect ran a red light at a high rate of speed and struck another vehicle, causing his car to flip and catch on fire. Police say Heiselman then exited his overturned vehicle and fled the scene on foot, running in...

Union City: Traffic collision claims pedestrian’s life

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:45:36 GMT

UNION CITY — A man was arrested last weekend shortly after an investigation into his involvement in a fatal vehicle-pedestrian collision, authorities said.According to a police statement, officers responded shortly after 9:30 p.m. last Friday near Alvarado Niles Road and Dowe Avenue for a report of a major traffic collision.When officers arrived, they found an unresponsive pedestrian lying in the roadway. Paramedics also responded and provided life-saving measures, but the man was pronounced dead at the scene.The Alameda County Sheriff’s Office coroner’s bureau identified him Monday night as Dionisio Molina Jr., 51, of Alameda.Officers investigating the collision soon located a suspect vehicle parked in a city neighborhood, and spoke with a man they believed had been driving the vehicle.The man, who police said cooperated with the investigation and did not appear to be under the influence of alcohol or other substances, was later arrested on suspicion of a separate...